i think you touched on this before when you mentioned (paraphrasing) "our culture isnt capable of tackling lawlessness anymore" in the other thread on detroit.
self evident in the current climate, twitch... im not anti gender, but i do think some males do chase what was traditionally female roles and vice versa, and in my usual way i think its best for each individual to work themselves out fully in a no excuses, no justifying yourself way - this is real to me in ways theory is not, anything less is walking dead... which does leave me in a hard explain middle ground on gender roles.
i doubt id easily bring up a soft boy, but thats another story and something i havent had to find out, i doubt my genepool creates them much anyway
funny thing about my current love of cameras, my favoured technique is no tripod, no flash.. which is an approach that requires a particular "still moment" with a gentle squeeze moment...something i developed during a another hobby period and have maintained to this day.