by Tinker » Mon Dec 27, 2010 4:55 am
Blaming kids or parents is at once over-complicating and over-simplifying. In the Depression parents were as desperate as the kids, so that generation hustled. Today, anyone who is desperate also hustles. It's a tyranny of false expectations. 'I can't take that job, it won't pay my rent or college loans.'. Also it's very real that college grads can't getshit jobs even if they wanted to due to overqualification. Yes your hardship point is valid, but in my experience, hardship breaks people as often as it forges them.
You say my internship point is an excuse, but my wife is on her way to corporate executive in her mid-twenties because she turned an internship into qcareer due to what I describe. On the other hand I missed similar opportunities because I was worried about my next meal. I have friends in both situations. Now I have the freedom again because my wife has an awesome job, thus Haiti.
As you probably have noticed, I do not perceive myself as locked into the humble station from which I came. I think I won't be just comfortable, but rich one day. I totally see a difference between this and if I'd had to struggle in the same way. At the same time, I have lived in true poverty in my life.
The canary didn't die because this mine is dangerous, it died because it's lazy and wasn't raised with a proper work ethic.