Beautiful Women

[Demon of Undoing]

Hey , just so the " to each his own " crowd knows :

I am getting my nine year old daughter squared away to take an online assessment for her e-schooling ( the state finally did something right and approved use of K12 curriculum , which we use as a baseline and to get public school accreditation ) . I am looking at this thread. She is in the room with me ( almost directly behind me , in fact ) , reading her book independently ( something on Greek mythology) , and I have smokin' hot chicks on my computer screen . I am not spanking it , she is not freaking out, and if she asks what I am looking at , I can legitimately say that there is a survey of different national/racial ideas of beauty being presented , with extra credit for noticing how Madison Avenue has tended to blur distinctions through pervasive brainwashing with the Pamela Andersonizing technique ( and how to fight that) .

I am certain that, even if she is skeptical of that whole line, she will not burn her eyes out of their sockets, and I will not gel the brain in my head thinking that my daughter in nine years will be a likely candidate to wear some of the underwear we have seen here. I am certain that , a decade hence, whatever underwear will be , we now do not have a clue .

While I of course have my game going and she will have hers ( when she is of age, obviously) , I see no reason why I should pretend she will always be nine years old . In fact, I want to create an environment where she is able to have a healthy sexuality later on down the line, when that is appropriate , and not have some sort of baggage that makes her miserable. Boundaries all over the place, but no shameful secrets . I thought the idea was to enjoy creation , not fear and feel shameful about it .

Like DeNiro put it ; I'm not sayin' nuttin'. I'm just sayin' ...

[Endovelico]

By Golly! This is a healthy forum. Thanks Tinker for having saved us from the nutty crowd...

[Tinker]

[YMix]

And the Lord created beautiful women and the Colonel was his prophet. And Tinker delivered the children unto the promised forum and Endovelico rejoiced. Tinker's name be praised.

[Colonel Sun]

[Tinker]

[Demon of Undoing]

The thing is, I am convinced that treating your parents , or your brother , or your children as a category instead of a human being is positively toxic to a good life. These people that carry burdens against their father and mother and go shoot up a place, or use the anger to dump on the later generations or whatever , are unwilling to extend to them the same grace and hopes they would to a complete stranger. It's absurd.

Someday, I really want my daughter to have a week in Aruba with her husband that is truly epic. Maybe she might just have half the fun I have had ...

[Tinker]

Nice.

I got a suggestion from a friend that we should get my daughter into child modelling. I did some catalog modelling as a child, and we COULD use the money. I asked her if she would want to get dressed up in fancy clothes, and have her picture taken for money, and she was pretty enthusiastic about it, talking about how she needed money to buy stuff. She's three and seemed to comprehend the whole thing. I don't mind it for children's clothing. What concerns me is what happens if she wants to continue a modelling career after puberty, being that many magazine models are about 14. I am not sure how much of a stomach for that world I have. But at the end of the day I am cursed with a beautiful daughter. My wife is a beautiful woman, my Mom was a beautiful woman. I am told by quite many people that I'm a quite good looking dude. And being able to attract members of the opposite sex runs in my family. So I am sort of conflicted on how to deal with it in my daughter's case. My goal has always been to teach her Kung Fu. So I teach her a lot of kinesthetic skills. She was very interested in muscle books for about a week when I got in the mail. The concept that her body was filled with muscles was creepy cool to her. My goal is for her to get to 18 with a better working knowledge of Physiology than a first year pre-med student, along with a knowledge of how to translate that intellectual knowledge into physical capability. Basically, so she can unseat and reset the carpals on a wandering palm. She already uses her beauty to her advantage and gets total strangers to give her things all the time. The combination of growing up in a Cosmopolitan environment, being beautiful and parents who want to encourage her to use her charms to get her way, as long as she is gracious about it, will lead where it leads.

But I do look back at my ineptitude with the ladies (not at acquiring them, but in their proper usage) and hope she doesn't have to deal with such jerks in the future. But I think that a lot of training goes into that. You really CAN teach a young girl how to properly treat men, and young boys how to properly treat women. Hopefully I can pass on to her and subsequently my infant son that even if someone is unworthy of respect, everyone is worthy of love and compassion.

[Endovelico]

[Tinker]

[Colonel Sun]

On the other hand, why worry about hypotheticals.

[Rhapsody]

[Nonc Hilaire]

This comes under the "good problems to have" category. This board will require considerable growth before it rates this concern.

[Tinker]

[Mattmovies]

Alodia Gosiengfiao

[Tinker]

Love her freedom fighter outfit.

[Mattmovies]

Another one of Alodia Gosiengfiao

[Mattmovies]

[Colonel Sun]

Tip of the hat to Mattmovies for reminding me of this image:



[Alodia Gosiengfiao | 21 ]

The very high heels are rather impractical compared to the rest of her outfit. Still, a very striking look.

[Tinker]

Sounds like she knows what target market she's aiming for.

[Colonel Sun]

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