by Captain Murphy » Sun Oct 23, 2011 8:22 pm
The "collective" aspect of East Asian cultures has always puzzled me. Taken at face value, the notion that East Asians live in societies that favor collective rather than individual values would in Western eyes imply a value system that prioritizes the well being of others above the gratification of the self. But that apparently is not what "collective values" means in Asia. I guess over there it is interpreted as a sort of conformism to liberate individuals from having to get involved in the messy business of caring about the problems of others (who have presumably brought about their problems by deviating from accepted norms in the first place)?
Similar tragedies happen the world over, no doubt about it, but I have sensed a noticeably lack of empathy or concern for others from my Asian colleagues. Said colleagues also sometimes like to point out that Asian societies care not about ideology when solving problems, but about doing "what is right" to help people. Which is nonsense, of course, because actions speak louder than words. A sadly typical reaction to an injured bystander in China is to ignore them. They'll often cite a famous case in Nanjing where a judge held a good Samaritan liable because only someone plagued with guilt over causing an accident would return to help the victim. But that's not really the reason why they won't help, it's just an excuse that has become fashionable in recent years.
I think of it as selfish behavior and selfish values, and I'm not sure where it comes from. It isn't just a Chinese problem, by the way, but all of the "Confucian" cultures and perhaps even more broadly, the "Buddhist"-influenced societies. I don't really believe it's a religious or philosophical thing, but more likely a consequence of the concept of "face" and the general lack of acknowledgment of strangers. I think it tends to isolate people to a very unhealthy degree, especially when combined with the added anonymity that city life brings.
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